In order to feel in control of our lives we need to have some sort of idea of what brings us joy and what depletes us. When we begin to let go of what does not serve us anymore; be it habits, negative thoughts patterns or in some cases relationships or jobs, we make room for the creation of something new and more aligned with us.
We need to get in that child-like mode of daydreaming of what WOULD make us happy and bring us joy to begin to DREAM BIG and attract what it is we want more of into our lives. There are many ways to let go and many many ways to attract more goodness and having tools makes it a heck of a lot easier to begin and stick with this journey so we can see our dreams turn into our new reality.
Letting go is usually a hard concept for us. Our ego will rise up to protect us from the unknown changes ahead and tell us things like, “Aren’t you more comfy here in the old?”, even when it is clear we are ANYTHING BUT comfy! It is helpful in releasing the old to:
- Be Extra Loving to Yourself – If a loved one was embarking on a new journey, we would not hesitate to be their cheerleader. When it is ourselves, sometimes we can doubt and berate ourselves and that makes it feel impossible to move forward. Give yourself an inner hug as you notice what is not serving you in your life and affirm that you do in fact deserve more.
- Use the energies of the planet to assist you. Native Americans and many ancient civilizations knew the power of the full and new moon. We are mostly water and as the planets and tides move, our emotions are definitely affected and there are ways to release and to set intentions when it is most powerful and we are in fact, supported by the Universe. I am blessed to offer a monthly Full Moon Distance Healing through AtoZ Healing Space to support this release of the old and intentions for the new. You can sign up for $1 to receive this extra support and if you can join live, tomorrow Friday November 3rd, I will be in the AtoZ Facebook Forum leading an energy exercise to help you feel energy and set these intentions for release and the new with strength.
To create the new, we need to have released some old to make some room and also have a vision of where we would like to go. Once again the most important step is:
- Be Loving to Yourself and Know Your Worth – Most of us struggle with self-love and the criticisms that come from within our minds. We might feel life is limited and if one area is thriving we cannot possibly ask for another area to be thriving as well. We might even feel guilty for success as we notice other people suffering. By taking control of our lives and dreaming big and setting intentions, we are proclaiming to the world, “Yes, I am worthy.” By doing this and stepping forward into what we want to create, we are actually being an example to the people around us that YES, they can have it all too!!
- Gain Tools to Move Forward! I recently participated in the Dream Big Summit. There were over 30 teachers that gave tools and practical advice into moving forward into what you want to create. These teachers have all released the old to embrace the new and are all inspirations in leading others. The Dream Big Summit has passed, but the interviews and free gifts are still available and have received rave reviews. This summit offers a great road map for getting to where you want and offering the tools and inspiration to get you off to a running start. I do hope you will take advantage of the gifts and tools.
We all can live our best lives. We all deserve to be the highest version of ourselves as a service to ourself and all the people around us. The more we shine, the more we inspire others to shine. The more we feel wonderful, the more the people around us feel wonderful. The more we love ourselves, the more we attract people to us that love us from that beautiful unconditionally loving space.
I hope you will join me for the Full Moon Healing through AtoZ Healing Space and for the Dream Big Summit and please keep me updated on your journey!! I love to hear about other people’s successes as they release the old, manifest their desires and step into a world much more in flow and ease than they ever even thought possible! Best wishes for your journey!!